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Originally posted by mztiny:
Thank you Aries23!As for the Uranus/Pluto to NVenus....
I will say this...between May 2012-May 2014 I experienced prob the hardest lesson of my life. I met a man that spun me out of control sexually. He used me over and over again taking me down a dark deeply hidden sexual path which I still have a hard time forgetting today. He was a karmic relationship that taught me some very hard lessons. My NPluto also opposed his NVenus....I obsessed over this man day and night, burning from my core over and over again. He was a user but appealed to everything i THOUGHT I wanted so I came back over and over for more pain. Took me two years to get him out of my body and like I said before...still haunts me to this day. So...if this is the Uranus/Pluto aspect to natal Venus...then I never EVER wish this on anyone.
HUGS*** Venus in Cancer loves(Venus)with the heart(Moon). And if the Moon is also in water or aspected by Neptune/Pluto- Yikes!!!!
Uranus seems to produce a novelty/newness that is hard to resist. It jolts us out of the mundane. Especially when it touches Venus. But its heartbreak is not debilitating.Not from what I have seen.
We could change out minds about the way we look, spend more money sporadically, feel "sexier", attract very interesting(albeit unreliable people) etc. Its a whirlwind Ben Affleck/Jennifer Lopez transit.An the break-up is also very sudden.
When it ends, you are like "what the hell was that all about?" But you also know, that the ride was necessary to get you out of your rut and see the possibilities that are out there.
I appreciate Uranus transits for the novelty. My Moon in Cancer opposing Mercury/ squaring Mars loves the "newness" they provide.Although not always smooth(wrote about that in another thread).
But Pluto can be scary.Pluto f*** stings. That is the planet that cuts to the cre of you.
The opposition to your Venus suggests a definite romance or a possibility for a partnership that shakes the ground.
I thought that Pluto in Cap would be easier for water signs. But I stand corrected. Pluto is in the "hard knock" sign of Capricorn that can be very cold especially for the ever feeling Cancer.
The best way to heal from such pain is to talk/write from the before/after perspective.
The opposition offers a lot of "retrospect" perspective and a striving for balanced outlook.More mentally charged outlook(thank god!)
You may want to pick up a self-help book(if you into that sort of thing). I would recommend Dr. Robyn Norwood "Women who love too much"
You will recover